Aquarius in Love
Aquarians need the same space and freedom in a relationship that they crave in every other area of their lives. Even when they commit, the need doesn't evaporate. They must follow the dictates of their individuality above all else. This stubbornness can work against them if they aren't careful. Aquarians usually are attracted to people who are unusual or eccentric in some way. Their most intimate relationships are marked by uniqueness.
Aquarians can be very instinctive but usually for other people, not for themselves. They also try to root for the underdog, but sometimes pick the wrong underdog or victim to defend. Their upbeat, positive outlook on life can be tempered by idealistic notions they try hard to suppress. The biggest goal in life, for them, is to remain calm and cool. This is very important for Aquarius because, when they let loose, they can be big fireballs. And, if they get too wound up, the aggression they exude can be harsh for other people to cope with. Instinctively, they know this and try to temper it, often unsuccessfully.
Aquarians are survivors — know this. So, if you want to be with one, know that they're hard-headed with their decisions. Under that cool exterior is a person who must, eventually, follow their heart and mind. And this can be difficult, too, because the two forces don't always agree! But sticking around with an Aquarius will pay off. They'll trust you and slowly get attached.
Aquarians know that they're strong individuals and that they can turn the tides to their favor. Luck follows them everywhere — even if they're not aware of it. There's something of a destined feeling to the relationships of Aquarians. They may even sense where they're headed before the fact. An Aquarius is not a big mystery, though. If you want an answer about love, just ask. Aquarians will tell you if your relationship is headed somewhere or not. If they're not sure, chances are that the answer is no, but they can be swayed over time.
Aquarius also must see a bit of the world before settling down. He plays a little game with himself. He may even get married a couple of times before realizing that he just wasn't ready for what he thought he was. An ideal partner for Aquarius will show his own mental agility, his independence, and his emotional strength of will. This will get an Aquarius to follow you to the ends of the earth, but only if he's ready for something real to enter his life.
