Talking to a Loved One about His or Her Problem
Having a friend or loved one who is addicted to prescription medications can be confusing and frightening. Initially, one might rationalize that the person really needs the medication and once the pain or other medical problem subsides, the problem will go away. In reality, this is unlikely and it's better to face the problem truthfully.
Timing is important in talking with an addicted person. If the addicted person is not sober at the time of the conversation, she may not be able to have a rational conversation. At the right time, open the conversation with reassurances of care and concern, not condemnation. Learn the facts about prescription drug addiction so the conversation is based on accurate information.
An addict may feel shame over her addiction or may feel desperate to obtain more of the drug. Both situations are often motivation for the addict to lie and steal. Confront lying and theft with the truth. It is not helpful to enable an addicted person. The addicted person needs help and treatment and may not be able to recognize the depth of his addiction on his own.
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The “shadow market” is a complex system of illicit distribution of prescription drugs. Unscrupulous middlemen divert drugs from legitimate pharmaceutical companies and sell them illegally at huge markups in price. Counterfeiters produce copies of popular, expensive drugs and sell them to unsuspecting pharmacies and patients. Some diverted drugs are diluted before being sold to increase profits.
Compassion for a painful situation is necessary and may provide the impetus for the addict to trust someone for help. Even though talking with a friend or loved one will hopefully motivate him to get treatment, precautions to protect oneself may be necessary. Lock up prescription medications, money, and valuables. Monitor credit card bills to make sure the cards haven't been used for online prescription drug purchases.
If medications are left over after an illness has been treated, flush the remainder down the toilet or take it to a pharmacist for proper and safe disposal. Persistently offering to help and letting the addicted person know that you care and are available when he is ready to receive treatment are important.

